Great article! I totally agree with your perspective on this; and as Aesop wisely said: "Better to be wise by the misfortunes of others than by your own." I wrote an article on this very subject https://joanne-shamping.medium.com/how-to-gain-wisdom-read-some-of-aesops-fables-fcd011976313. It would be great if you could set a few minutes aside to read it.