A woman wrote to discuss her five years of marriage and the fact that she and her husband agree they were happiest during the six-month period they spent living apart while she did a fellowship in another city. “[They] talked on the phone every night, [they] got the quiet time [they] both thrive on and the quality time [they] spent together became special again instead of routine.” Thanks to all this, they decided to live in separate apartments. They were thrilled with the plan u…